A little about me

Some people introduce themselves by listing achievements.
I’ve never been good at that.

Maybe it’s because most of what shaped me never looked impressive from the outside.

I grew up between two cultures (Chinese/Australian) and divorced parents, learning early on how to read a room before I ever learned how to read myself. I became the “good daughter,” the responsible one and always did what others , especialy my parents, expected of me. I pursued a ‘stable’ life; good grades, commerce degree, full time jobs, secure income. I didn’t realise it at the time, but these roles I played quietly shaped everything. How I loved, how I worked, how I hid, how I carried other people’s expectations, emotions and influences in my body and mind.

It took years before I understood that the strength people saw in me was built from things I never spoke about: the grief of losing my dad, the quiet guilt of wanting a life different from what my parents imagined, the confusion of trying to honour where I come from without abandoning who I’m becoming.

And somewhere along the way, through study, inner work, heartbreak, coaching, Traditional Chinese Medicine, yoga, hypnosis, and a lot of sitting with myself, something softened. Not in a weak way, but in a truthful way. I realised that wisdom doesn’t come from having everything figured out. It comes from being willing to meet yourself honestly, again and again, even when it’s uncomfortable.

What I’ve come to understand is simple, but it took me years to trust it:

• You’re allowed to grow in your own direction, even if no one in your family or circle has ever done it before.

• You’re allowed to want a life that feels like you, not just the version that keeps everyone else happy.

• And you don’t need to break apart, or wait until something extreme happens to begin. A quiet willingness is enough.

• You don’t have to choose between your family and your freedom. It’s possible to have both.

My work isn’t about giving advice or fixing and healing people. I did not choose this path to have power over other people’s lives. I chose this path so you could rediscover the power within your own.

Because I believe, with my whole heart, that every person already has what they seek inside. We are simply covered by layers of conditioning, stories and inherited beliefs that were never fully ours to begin with.

So my work is not to tell you who to be. It’s to hold a safe space, listen deeply, without judgement, ask curious questions, tap into the subconscious and clear away what is not yours. Clear away the noise, old influences, habits, thought patterns, behaviours emotional homes you’ve absorbed so you can begin again.

On a clean page. From your inner truth.

From there, we explore the possibilities that open when you’re in alignment with your purpose, with your subconscious mind...how life begins to feel lighter, easier, more grounded, more in flow, more alive, when you return to balance within yourself.

This is the core of what I do. It's who I am and my passion! I've experienced the transformation myself, and it's been one of those things where once you start you can't stop. The transformation continues. Life becomes an adventure in which you have the map to. So pick your own adventure. I'm also on a path I chose to go on like you too, learning, unlearning, growing. It's a cycle, it doesn't end...or perhaps it does, and begins again.

I don’t have all the answers. But I know what it feels like to lose yourself… and what it feels like to find your way back…quietly, slowly, honestly.

Life is too short to live in suffering. We’re human after all. We live and we die so why not find what excites us and Iive how we want to live?

If my story touches something in you, maybe it’s because your own truth is beginning to stir too.

Love,
Jessie