Many of us grew up learning that saving face or being “good” was safer than being honest. Meeting family expectations becomes second natue. You learned to hide parts of yourself, as the path of obligation drains your energy and joy.
Torn between freedom and security, truth and harmony, you want more from life…without losing the people you love.
This is a space where old cultural conditioning loosens and inherited beliefs are released, so you can reconnect with who you truly are and begin building a life full of purpose, excitement and magic.
An invitation to awaken
Hi I’m Jessie. I’m an inner work coach.
You grew up in a family where love came with pressure, expectations & unspoken rules about who you should become
You being “good” felt safer than being honest
You find yourself lying, hiding, or editing who you are and what you do to avoid disappointing your family or creating conflict.
You feel torn between wanting independence & needing security, unsure how to choose without risking relationships
You carry loyalty guilt for wanting a different life, even though the one you’re living feels heavy, draining, or unfulfilling.
You overthink and worry often that you’re no longer sure what you actually want.
On the surface, everything looks “fine” (you have a stable job and lifestyle), but underneath there’s stress, anxiety, tension, self-doubt, or emotional overwhelm.
Something inside you wants to change, but afraid that you will break something you can’t repair.
You’re tired of just talking about your problems and want real, deep, embodied change.
You feel there is more to life than the one you’re living. More meaning, freedom, and aliveness…and you fear that if nothing changes, this will be your life forever.
This is for you
if…
What my clients say, from their hearts to you.
Feeling disconnected with yourself? Caught between identities? You’re not alone.
Growing up trying to be someone else’s version of yourself can leave you feeling out of sync with your values, your body and what you really want.
That restless, tired feeling isn’t just in your mind, it’s in your shoulders, your breath, and your energy.
The exhaustion and fear longs for freedom. You’ve been holding it in for a while now, haven’t you? When is it time to uncover your truth and let your truth lead?
What you’ll start to experience…
A growing sense of peace, clarity & excitement about building a life you really want
More energy and emotional steadiness as you begin living in alignment with your body, values, and inner truth.
A felt reset, like starting from a blank page, as old conditioning and inherited programming clear, allowing you to consciously create your own path.
Deeper awareness of your thoughts, emotions, and inherited beliefs
New perspectives on your upbringing that bring compassion without keeping you stuck in old roles.
Greater ease in speaking and acting from your truth
Real shifts in family dynamics as generational patterns begin to release.
Belonging and confidence in your identity, body, and culture.
Clearer values and boundaries that feel respectful, grounded, and self-honouring.
A sense of fulfilment, success, and self-trust that comes from within, not from meeting expectations.
Feeling like yourself again, no longer living a double life or editing who you are to be accepted.
Where transformation meets heritage and East meets West.
Growing up between cultures and expectations, I know what it’s like to feel caught between who you should be and who you really are. When identity start to feel like a performance… You’ve been taught to survive, to save face, to make others proud, to do what’s right.
But never to ask, what’s right for me?
My work is about helping you reconnect with the inner voice that’s been quieted by family, culture, pressure, and the fear of letting yourself and others down. To understand confusing emotions and release negative inherited patterns so you can find freedom, peace, and live life on your own terms.
This is not about becoming louder, bolder, or fitting into someone else’s idea of success and confidence. It’s an awakening to who you truly are.
An invitation to awaken
Our sessions are grounded & tailored to what’s coming up for you.
Sometimes it’s untangling old patterns & emotions. Sometimes it’s remembering what brings you joy. Sometimes it’s meeting the parts of you you’ve hidden to stay safe.
No pressure. Just real conversations, deep shifts & authentic support.
Choose your pace-
Those ready to understand themselves, shift patterns, and begin freeing the self that’s been hidden beneath old conditioning.
Awakening awareness
A peek at who you are
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Those seeking deeper transformation and lasting clarity, to clear inherited patterns, unresourceful emotions, and step into authenticity and self-trust.
Liberation & integration
A run towards freedom
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This is for those who seek ultimate transformations and long-lasting change in their life, fast. You will come out feeling empowered, free, balanced & clear about your path, with full belief and plan to achieve your goals.
Full rebirth: embodiment & empowerment
A dare to dream big
It’s easy to stay with what’s familiar, to wait for the “right” time. I did too, until life reminded me how short it really is, through the loss of my father. That moment showed me that nothing changes until something changes, and that change begins the moment you decide you’re ready. So I stopped living from obligation and began listening to what genuinely excites me, a choice that has led me here, living my passion to serve.
So if not now, when?
My story
I’m not here because I have all the answers. I’m here because I’ve lived the story you’re trying to rewrite.
Growing up between cultures, I learned to be the good daughter, the quiet achiever, the one who kept the peace. I shaped myself around expectations until one day I asked, Who am I beneath all of this?
My work was born from that moment, from the journey of untangling the beliefs I inherited, honouring my upbringing without losing myself, and rebuilding an identity that finally felt like my own. My background blends deep emotional and subconscious work with holistic mind–body practices. I’m trained in NLP, Hypnotherapy, Life Coaching, Archetypal and Matrix Therapies.
More than any title, I meet you with honesty and heart.
Get in touch with me
Want to reach out? Not sure about something? Ask me anything 😊